By: Rihab Ch.
How to forget about the past
Sometimes in life, some moments seems to be so hard, you can pass through a bad experience, you don’t know what you have to do and you’ll be so frustrated that you can even lose believing in yourself, you want to let go and forget but it became harder to get over it…
I believe that living in this situation make the person unable to think, figuring out a solution is more difficult but I also believe that that could be easier if you take it as a lesson,
Of course you’ll want to forget about all the pain that this situation caused to you, so at first, you have to forgive, forgive yourself despite the mistakes, forget about the mistakes that you’ve made and just say that Allah wanted you to learn some lesson from it, so you could build your own personality, but you don’t want to learn the same lesson twice, so don’t repeat those mistakes again, you have to thank Allah, and just remember that you don’t want to live that pain again, forgive the people around you, even if they were not nice to you, and thank whom were there for you and shared your pain trying to make you feel better those persons are your real friends, so a hard situation help you find real friends and like we say “a friend in need is a friend indeed “
Second a problem like this makes you think about who are you and what you want to do with your life, it shows you that your life need your courage to survive in it, and you did pass a hard moment, and you still alive so you are a hero, never forget that you are the hero of your own life story, so you have to build your own personality and look at yourself in the mirror with so much pride and self-confidence, that will bring joy and happiness in your life everyday and that will help you forget the bad days you passed, be strong and everything will work out naturally,
You should never have regrets, not even one, and be happy, always be happy, believe in yourself, nothing is perfect, and life has bad, moments and good ones, but you should know that: the bad moments help you taste the good ones, well, my best friend told me once, in school we take exams after learning the lessons while in life you learn lessons after taking exams, so we have to believe that a bad situation is a hard exam, but you should take it anyway, cause the lesson you’ll learn is so much important, fill your life with joy, and smiles, just be happy…